Need your advice….
Ok, so today the kids were getting out of my moms car. I opened the door for my son right after a neighbor parked right next to us. I unbuckled my son and and told him to grab his toys and hand me his drink. While I’m sitting the drink on top of the car, (the neighbor has her driver’s side door open, sitting inside, and her daughter had already got out and shut the van door) he pushes the door further open and I reach for it too late. So it skidded her back door. Now I was shocked, trying to talk to him etc. (Sort of yelling) my mom says sorry and asks her if she wants to file a claim (the door was loaded with scratches already and I watched it skid the door so I know exactly what mark was ours, Yes there were that many scratches already on her door) and the woman says “No it’s fine,” as she’s already heading toward her house her back to me, then under her breath “need to watch your kids better.” Now I say absolutely nothing and I cant stop thinking about it. I was right there helping my son and it was an accident (later i went out took a pic then rubbed the spot and the white came off on my finger revealing the cars paint unscratched underneath.) But I don’t want a neighbor to talk to me like that, but I still feel bad about what happened and you could tell she was ticked. I mean I would be too, but when I looked over her car there are deep scratches everywhere and dents on her doors. The mark that we left was no dent. So what should I do? I can’t stop thinking about it lol. I don’t know if I handled the situation all wrong or I should have been rude right back. Ughghghhg.